Before the universe, there was only potential, there was no-thing physical, but it was something (not nothing), it was consciousness in a sleep like state (a.k.a. Samadhi). When it - consciousness - awoke, the whole universe came into being. We are all that same consciousness, just as different manifestations of objects. It is really all ONE. With this known, hate is a silly delusion (your own maya), love and gratitude and laughter are yours for the being. Vazgha Valamudan!